Week Eight of the Devotional Series

*Note – As we continue our journey through the Bible in chronological order, this is our fifth week in the book of Job. Though this is Week 8 overall, we’re still walking alongside Job. *
Devotional Format: I Do – We Do – You Do
Focus: Job 17 – 20
Tip: I highly recommend journaling your responses to the questions, prompts, and reflections. Writing them out can help you process more deeply and see how God is working in your life.
This week’s devotion includes:
Chapter 17 – “You, My Friends, Have No Wisdom”
Chapter 18 – “Truth Without Love Hurts: The Wrong Way to Help”
Chapter 19 – “My Redeemer Lives”
Chapter 20 – “Search Me, O God”
(Remember: This is a once-a-week devotional that can be done in one day or broken up over several days.)
Bible Memory:
Did you memorize last week’s Bible verse?
Hiding God’s Word in our hearts is such a valuable practice. Since I’ve been memorizing Scripture, I’ve experienced so many moments where God brings a specific verse to mind just when I need it most. It’s amazing how He uses His Word to speak into our lives right where we are.
This Week’s Memory Verse — Psalm 139:23–24
“Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts:
And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.”
I Do – Watch Me Study
Job Chapter 17
You, My Friends, Have No Wisdom
(Read Job Chapter 17 First)
As I read Job 17, I notice right away that Job feels completely spent. He says his spirit is broken and the grave is ready for him. That tells me just how low he’s feeling emotionally and physically. Job is expressing despair and weariness.
Then, I see that even in that place of suffering, Job is still dealing with his friends’ accusations. In verse 3, he turns to God and asks Him to “put me in a surety.” He’s saying, “God, please vouch for me.” Job asks God to be his advocate because no one else believes him.
In verse 4, Job says that God has “closed the minds” of his friends. I wonder why would God allow that? I think Job is recognizing that wisdom is a gift from God, and maybe he’s saying his friends don’t have that insight right now. We can use this lesson to help us remember to pray that the Lord can help us not to be blind like Job’s friends. Help us understand with grace, not just with opinion.
Let’s explore what God’s word has to say about wisdom:
1. Wisdom Comes from God
• James 1:5
“If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.”
Wisdom is available through prayer. God gives it generously when we seek it.
• Proverbs 2:6
“For the Lord giveth wisdom: out of his mouth cometh knowledge and understanding.”
True wisdom doesn’t originate from man, but from the Lord Himself.
2. The Fear of the Lord Is the Foundation
• Proverbs 1:7
“The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise wisdom and instruction.”
• Job 28:28
“And unto man he said, Behold, the fear of the Lord, that is wisdom; and to depart from evil is understanding.”
Reverent awe of God is the starting point for a wise life. It’s not just knowing what is right but wanting to live in light of who God is.
3. We Must Seek It Diligently
• Proverbs 4:7
“Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.”
• Proverbs 2:3–5
“Yea, if thou criest after knowledge, and liftest up thy voice for understanding; If thou seekest her as silver, and searchest for her as for hid treasures; Then shalt thou understand the fear of the Lord, and find the knowledge of God.”
Wisdom requires intentional pursuit like searching for treasure.
4. Wisdom Is Shown in How We Live
• Ecclesiastes 7:12
“For wisdom is a defence, and money is a defence: but the excellency of knowledge is, that wisdom giveth life to them that have it.”
- James 3:17
“But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.”
Wisdom isn’t just smart words. It shows up in gentleness, peace, and godly behavior.
How to Obtain Wisdom:
1. Ask God for It – James 1:5
2. Fear the Lord – Proverbs 1:7; Job 28:28
3. Read and Apply Scripture – Psalm 119:98
“Thou through thy commandments hast made me wiser than mine enemies: for they are ever with me.”
4. Walk with the Wise – Proverbs 13:20
“He that walketh with wise men shall be wise…”
5. Humbly Receive Correction – Proverbs 9:9
“Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be yet wiser…”
When I get to Job 17:9, it feels like a shift. Job says that the righteous will hold to their way and grow stronger. That’s encouraging. Even when everything falls apart, I can grow stronger if I hold tightly to what’s right.
But then verses 11–16 hit hard again. Job swings back into hopelessness. He talks about the end of his plans, the darkness, the grave. This is grief. Job is going back and forth between hope and despair. That’s actually kind of comforting. It shows me that even the most faithful people can feel both at once. Job doesn’t give up, but he doesn’t hide how hard this is either.
So as I close the chapter, here’s what I’m walking away with: Job’s pain is real, his hope flickers for a moment, but his desire to stay righteous is unwavering. That gives me permission to be honest with God when I’m struggling, and to keep clinging to Him even when I don’t feel hopeful.
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We Do – Let’s Study Together
Job Chapter 18
“Truth Without Love Hurts: The Wrong Way to Help”
(Read Job Chapter 18 First)
In Job 18, Bildad speaks again and wow, does he come in hot. He doesn’t just offer a rebuttal to Job’s perspective; he starts with insults:
“Are you ever going to stop talking, Job? Are we nothing more than unclean animals to you?”
He mocks Job’s grief and anger, as if Job’s suffering is offensive to him. Bildad’s whole speech is one long assumption: that Job is wicked and getting exactly what he deserves. He paints a terrifying picture of the fate of the wicked. They shall live in darkness, fear, weakness, abandonment, destruction, and drives it home with one clear implication: This is you, Job.
Take a moment to reflect:
- Have you ever felt wrongly accused by someone who claimed to be helping you?
- What emotions did that stir in you? Did you feel hurt, shame, frustration, defensiveness?
Bildad’s words are said with cruelty, not compassion. Honestly, this doesn’t even qualify as “tough love.” It’s more like jealousy wrapped in moral superiority, with a bitter undertone of “I can’t believe this happened to you, but I’m not sad about it.”
Reading this made me stop and ask myself:
How do I talk to people especially when they’re hurting?
Sometimes, even with good intentions, we can come across as harsh or condescending. We want to correct, to teach, to “help”, but our tone makes the other person feel small instead of seen. I especially think of this when I talk to my kids. What I mean as a life lesson can easily come off as criticism.
Journal Prompt:
- Think about someone you’ve recently tried to “correct” or teach. Maybe your child, a friend, or a spouse. How do you think your tone came across?
- Is there anything you wish you had said differently or not at all?
Let’s try something together. Here are a few “Say this instead of that” examples to reflect on:
Instead of saying this… “Why do you always do this?”
Try saying this… “I’ve noticed this keeps happening. Can we talk about why?”
Instead of saying this… “You’re being ridiculous.”
Try saying this… “I hear that you’re upset. Help me understand.”
Instead of saying this…“Well, maybe if you had listened…”
Try saying this…“I’m here for you. Is there something you need from me right now?”
Reflection Question:
How might changing your tone and word choice help bring healing instead of shame to someone in your life?
Let’s use Bildad’s failure as a mirror to learn from his mistake. We are called to speak truth in love not in sarcasm, not in superiority, and not in bitterness. Jesus shows us how to correct with compassion, confront with humility, and comfort with gentleness. Ephesians 4:15 says, “But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ:”
This verse reminds us that truth must be delivered in the context of love, not harshness or pride. The goal is growth, for ourselves and the person we’re speaking to, into Christlikeness.
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Job Chapter 19
My Redeemer Lives
(Read Job Chapter 19 First)
Job responds to Bildad with raw honesty. He doesn’t hold back. He says, in essence:
“How long will you keep wounding me with your words? Aren’t you supposed to be my friend? Even if I have sinned, that’s between me and God. You don’t have the right to tear me apart.”
He’s heartbroken by his physical suffering and by the way people close to him have responded. He feels abandoned, judged, and completely alone.
Reflection Question:
Have you ever felt misunderstood or hurt by someone who was supposed to support you? How did that affect your view of God or yourself?
Job says that God has torn down everything in his life, including his hope. He describes crying out to God and hearing nothing in return.
“He hath fenced up my way that I cannot pass, and he hath set darkness in my paths.” (v.8)
“He hath destroyed me on every side, and I am gone: and mine hope hath he removed like a tree.” (v.10)
His grief is so thick that he feels like even his ability to hope is gone.
I wonder if you’ve ever felt like something important was removed from your life? I know I have…Something you used to carry with ease, but now feels out of reach. Maybe it was a sense of peace, the ability to rest, joy in worship, or the strength to pray and believe like you once did.
Job says that his hope has been uprooted, and there are seasons where many of us can relate to that feeling. No matter how hard we try to grasp what we once had, it seems distant like it slipped through our fingers without explanation.
Journal Prompt:
What’s something in your life you feel has been “removed”? Is there something you once had…hope, peace, trust, connection…that now feels far off? Write about it honestly. Talk to God about it like Job did.
Job goes on to describe how every relationship has crumbled. He says his own wife and close family members are disgusted by him. He feels like he’s barely hanging on to life.
“My bone cleaveth to my skin and to my flesh, and I am escaped with the skin of my teeth.” (v.20)
But then Job’s tone shifts. Despite all of this pain, he proclaims something bold and faith-filled:
“For I know that my redeemer liveth, and that he shall stand at the latter day upon the earth.” (v.25)
What a declaration! He may not understand why he’s suffering, but he knows his Redeemer is alive. He trusts that one day, God will make things right, and he will see Him with his own eyes, even after his body has wasted away.
Reflection Question:
Can you recall a time when your faith in God stood firm even when your circumstances made no sense? If not, how can Job’s faith encourage you to trust that redemption is still coming?
At the end, Job turns the focus back to his friends. He warns them not to be so quick to judge, reminding them that they don’t see his heart, but God does. He urges them to consider their own motives and to beware of judgement coming upon them.
“But ye should say, Why persecute we him, seeing the root of the matter is found in me?” (v.28)
*Side Note – We will see that Job was right here and God does judge and discipline the friends later in Job Chapter 42
Reflection Question:
Have you ever assumed something about someone’s situation without knowing their heart? How can Job’s story remind you to lead with compassion instead of conclusions? In Job 42, God rebukes Job’s friends for misrepresenting Him and falsely accusing Job. What does that teach us about the seriousness of speaking on God’s behalf or judging others without full understanding? How can you practice more grace and humility in how you view someone else’s suffering?
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You Do – Apply It Personally
Job Chapter 20
Search Me, O God
(Read Job Chapter 20 First)
Job Chapter 20 Summary:
Zophar’s harsh speech in Job 20 paints a sobering picture of the fate of the wicked. He claims that even if someone seems successful and joyful in their sin for a time, their end will be full of sorrow, loss, and judgment. Though we know Job was not guilty of such wickedness, Zophar’s assumptions stand as a clear warning against jumping to conclusions without truly understanding someone’s heart. This theme keeps surfacing throughout Job, reminding us that God cares deeply about how we treat others and how quickly we judge.
As you reflect on this chapter, take time to consider what Scripture says about true justice, the consequences of sin, and the danger of pride. Zophar may have missed the mark in applying these truths to Job, but the principles still offer insight for our own lives.
Real-Life Application:
• While Zophar was wrong about Job, his words still raise a question: Am I hiding anything in my life that I need to bring into the light?
• It’s easy to see the flaws in others and forget our own need for humility,
repentance, and grace.
• Sometimes, we may even find ourselves assuming that hardship = judgment. But Job’s story reminds us again that suffering isn’t always the result of sin.
Reflection Questions / Journal Prompts:
• Have I ever assumed someone was being punished for something I couldn’t see? What does this reveal about my view of God and suffering?
• In what ways have I been tempted to chase short-lived joy rather than lasting righteousness?
• Is there anything I’m holding onto, like pride, hidden sin, or bitterness, that could be stealing my peace or distancing me from God? If so, what step can I take today to bring it into the light and let God begin healing it?
Psalm 139:23–24
“Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts:
And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.”
Take a few minutes to quietly ask God to search your heart. Write down anything He brings to mind…attitudes, habits, or thoughts that may be hurting your relationship with Him or others. Then pray over each one, asking for His help to surrender it.
Today’s Challenge:
Today, choose one thing you’ve identified, whether it’s pride, bitterness, or a hidden struggle, and take one intentional step toward healing. That might look like confessing it to God, making peace with someone, or talking to a trusted friend or mentor.
This Week’s Challenge:
Spend time in prayer asking God to reveal any assumptions or judgments you’ve made toward others or even toward yourself.
Then, take one intentional step to show compassion:
• Speak encouragement instead of criticism.
• Offer help instead of assumptions.
• Ask someone how they’re really doing…and truly listen.
Also, ask the Lord to search your own heart:
“Is there anything I’ve been clinging to that seems sweet in the moment but is harming my walk with You?”
Write it down. Bring it to the Lord. And trust Him to replace it with His peace.
Key Takeaway:
God sees beyond appearances. He knows our hearts. As we walk through pain, confusion, or misjudgment like Job, may we respond with humility, seek wisdom from above, and let God search and shape our hearts. While others may get it wrong, God never does, and He invites us to extend to others the same compassion and grace He shows to us.
Heavenly Father,
I’m in awe of your power. You can so easily bestow upon us wisdom if we seek it according to your word. As we go through our day today, help us to mind our tone. Remind us to lead and correct our children and others in love, not harshness. Help us to speak truth in love. As we continue through the book of Job, we keep seeing the same theme pop up. This tells me that You really want us to understand that You care deeply about how we treat others and how quick we are to judge. Help us to surrender anything in our lives that may be hurting our relationship with You and others.
In Jesus’ Name,
Amen
